New beginnings

It's been quite awhile since my last post, which is a shame. I am determined to get the hang of blogging regularly, even if no one is reading it. I always feel better after I've had a chance to write something, but I rarely take opportunities to do so. 

With the obligatory 'it's been awhile' comment out of the way, I can now get back to business. My children are now all in school. The oldest is in 4th, my second born is in second grade, and my youngest is in kindergarten. With them all in school fro almost the whole day (the kindergartener gets out 45 minutes earlier than the others,) I've found I have slightly more time to get things done and to make new goals. I've decided that with this time I will start a couple of home businesses, so I have signed up with Scentsy and Avon. I've sold Avon before when my children were all 4 and under, but I didn't put the time and dedication into it to make it successful. This time around I am trying much harder to be proactive about my businesses and actually going up to strangers and introducing myself and telling them about my businesses. The last time I relied on friends and friends of friends, which really limits the customers you can have, especially since people really only need so much lotion and eye liner.

I picked these two companies because they are both companies I shop with. I love the Scentsy wickless warmers and have quite a few around my house. Prior to having children I was obsessed with candles and owned hundreds, but after having children the idea of having fire around on a regular basis frightened me. Scentsy products allow me to have the scent and ambiance (minus the flicker) of actual candles, without the fear of burning my house down.

Avon has been around for over 125 years and has just been a constant presence in my life. Many of my family members used Avon products while I was growing up and it was the first thing that came to my mind when I decided to start that business several years ago. I regularly use their eyeliner and eye shadows and felt comfortable in suggesting it to other people.  


In other news, we have recently moved into a rental home just outside of El Paso that we were incredibly excited about. Unfortunately, the excitement wore off when we found out that the home, while aesthetically pleasing, is actually falling apart. In the less than 2 months that we have lived here the AC has broken down twice, the refrigerator stopped working (ON THE FIRST DAY!) there are several leaks, and this home seems to be a haven for spiders. Dealing with these issues gets incredibly frustrating, but I'm trying to look on the bright side. We have a roof over our heads, we are able to cook meals, and it's only temporary. I'm trying to be grateful for what we have, but it does get a little difficult when the children are unable to sleep because they are so hot. This home was built with the intention of having working ac, so many of the windows don't actually open and it's hard to get a breeze going. Another positive to the issues we've had with this house is that it has encouraged my husband and I to start the home buying process. Some of the builders that we have talked to have offered to buy out our lease so that we can move sooner than we had expected to.

Another bonus to where we live now is the school my children go to. We had a bit of a rough start due to a bully situation, but that was handled within a week and now my kids really enjoy their teachers and their classes. My oldest in particular has a great teacher who seems to take my daughters personality and learning style into account. It makes me feel confident about buying a home in this school district and knowing my children are going to get a good education.

If you've read this far, thank you for sticking around. I know it wasn't the most exciting blog, but hey, the majority of life isn't overly exciting. If anyone has ideas on how to boost home businesses, I would really appreciate it.

Ahhh mornings, how I loathe thee.

We've been staying in my mother's apartment this summer while we get things situated on the job front. She lives on the second floor of the building, which means I get to take several trips, including first thing in the morning, into the desert heat a day to take my 74 lb dog for a walk. During these walks I have learned that my dog is afraid of ants, no matter how many lizards there are she never sees them, small children will just run up and hug her, and random adults will be terrified of her and threaten to tell the police that I had the audacity to walk her, on a leash, in the park. It's loads of fun.

Look at that face. She's the sweetest thing, but also, to some, terrifying. What can ya do?


On another note, as of this morning I have a brand new nephew and I am so excited. Mommy, Daddy, and big sister are all doing well and enjoying their time cuddling with their newest member. I can't wait for all the pictures and updates and to watch him grow up.

Have a wonderful day! 

What's new?

I excel at slacking. It's one of my talents. My other talents include: reading, watching TV, gossiping about celebrities that I don't actually care about, kicking butt in candy crush and maybe even some useful talents. The slacking talent, though, is why I haven't blogged in nearly two years. So here I am making another vow to myself and whoever happens to read this, to blog, or at least journal privately, more often. 


Alrighty then. Since we've gotten that out of the way, let's see what's new. I'm currently living in Yuma, Az, which seems like a quaint place to be if you ignore the fact that it feels like Mordor when you walk outside. My husband got out of the Army and we are staying with my mom for the summer while he trains for his new job. He's actually finished training and gotten his assignment, so now we are doing the long distance house hunting thing. We'll be heading back to El Paso, Texas, but this time I know that central air and refrigerated air are NOT  the same thing, so I think I'm better prepared for it.  I actually ended up enjoying it after we got the housing situation under control. There is plenty to do and they city has various events throughout the year to keep us occupied, plus I already have friends there, so I feel confidant that this will work out well. 

Other than that, not much has changed. I did switch schools and switched my major. I've changed from business management to Psychology. I'm much happier with this field. I love learning about what makes people tick. Why one person responds to a situation in one way, and someone else responds in a completely different manner fascinates me. 

Well, that's all for now. I just figured since I'm already here I might as well say something. Sweet dreams, folks.

I screamed like a girl!

But, that's ok, because I am a girl. I walked to the backdoor of my house last night to let my dog in... when I went to put my hand on the door handle I noticed that something on the textured wall seemed... off. So, being the inquisitive one that I am I leaned in to get a closer look and found myself face to face with a lizard. I calmly turned around and ran to the kitchen and updated my facebook status to "OMG there is a lizard in my house. WTF" Now that the important part was out of the way I called my husband and begged him to come straight home from the gym and save me from the lizard. He ran home and goes into the living room to scope things out... he wasn't impressed.

"Really, D. You called me home to deal with a 3 inch long lizard?"

*hangs head in mock shame* "well, I wasn't going to touch it"

15 minutes and several panicky jumps from Dh later the lizard is outside and I am thoroughly traumatized. 10 year old me would have punched me in the face for my behavior.

The glass might just be half-full

Despite the things that are making me sad right now, I am trying to look on the bright side (this is new for me.) I have more time for reading now, after the kids go to bed it's usually just me and I get to read complete sentences without being interrupted. It's craziness. I'm currently reading a Jodi Picoult Novel called "Plain Truth" or "The Plain Truth." I really enjoy her writing although there has been the occasional book that I couldn't get through. I have another one of her books on my "to read" shelf that I just don't think I can read. That one is called "Handle with Care" and it just breaks my heart. I've also started watching Grey's Anatomy. As usual I'm tardy for the party and I'm only on season 3 while the rest of the U.S. is on season 8 or 9.

With all of this new found free time I've decided to start sewing again. I'm not very good, but I think I have enough fabric to at least practice for awhile. I would love to be able to make my own dress one day, especially since I can't seem to find the one I really want. *if you happen to know where I can get a blue polka dotted white dress with a halter style neckline please let me know.*

I guess I'm done blabbing for now. Have a great day, people.

I bought some Bath & Body Works and it made me sad

A few weeks ago I was hanging out at the outlet malls when I realized that Bath & Body Works had their hand soaps on sale 7 for $20. This being my favorite sale of the year I rushed in to buy some. There seemed to be endless options on what scents and types to get; moisturizing, foaming, anti-bacterial... I was sort of overwhelmed by all the options. Eventually I narrowed it down to the 7 soaps that I thought would be great next to my kitchen sink. As soon as I got home I stashed my generic hand soap and picked the one that I thought would smell the best, Cherry. After trying it out I discovered that the Cherry scent is actually more of a marlboro light smell than a fruit smell. Weird. I made it a 1/3 of the way through that bottle before hiding it in the closet and picking another. This time it was Cinnamon Raisin Cookie... also disgusting. What the hell? Bath & Body Works we are 2 for 2 and I'm a little bit scared to continue trying the other scents. Maybe I'll just stick to walmart soap.

Hello Followers!!

All 10 of you anyway :) I just can't seem to get the hang of this whole blogging on a regular basis thing. It's not like I have anything new or interesting to say, but whatever. I promised to blog, so blog I will. We are very nearly to September and it's still incredibly hot ALL THE TIME. What is up with texas? If it's going to be that hot then all homes should be legally required to have AC. Being hot does not make me a happy camper at all. I hope that this ends some day soon.

The kids have been in school for a week and have already had a 3 day weekend. J has decided that she hates school, so every morning is a battle. She's all smiles by the time I pick her up, though. K is in 1st grade and seems to enjoy school as much as she ever has. She loves learning and socializing, so something that combines both of her favorite things at the same time is bound to be a hit. I'm glad that school has started for them, but sad that I'm not able to continue my classes this year. Hopefully soon we will get stationed else where and I can get back to the way things were. Well, I've run out of mundane topics to talk about so...